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I've decided that I want to tell my family, I have been considering it for a while but have had mixed feelings about doing so in the past, thinking maybe it was better to wit until I had met someone or that other things happening would make this the wrong time.

But I now think that it would probably be better to tell them now, not to just get it out the way, but I would rather that they hear this from me then someone else, as most of my friends now know and it is a pretty close knit circle of people with my parents family talking to there families.

The trouble is that as a family we don't tend to talk about stuff like this, my brother had been bringing home girls for years by the time he was my age and I have never brought a guy home so I am kind of hoping they at least suspect something, But I really don't know how to bring this up, I have also found it hard to tell even the closest of my friends, once it has been said then I find it fine to talk about it all but finding the first two words to say I'm gay seems really hard.

I want to do it right when I tell my family they mean a lot to me and I know I will only have to do this once, but I want to do it well and make them understand stuff that I struggle to understand myself. Also a couple if my friends have offered to come and help me if I want, but I feel like this is dragging them into something that they shouldn't have to do and I don;t want to make my family feel bad that I choose not to tell them first.

Any help/suggestions/opinions much appreciated thank you.

Source: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/coming-out-advice/89285-i-want-tell-my-family.html

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